As early in my life as I can remember, these phrases have resounded in my brain; “You did not communicate that.” OR “I did not get that point out of what you said.” OR “That’s not what you communicated.” OR “I didn’t hear that.” Sound familiar?
I do not proclaim to be a “Communication Expert” but I do proclaim to be passionate about all things Communication! Communication is expressed many different ways – verbal, written, gestures, body language and even by the tone of our voice. Let me share with you about my journey of becoming the communicator I am today.
Eight years ago I married my best friend, Jarrad. During the “honeymoon phase” of our relationship and marriage, the inevitable was ignored - our dramatic differences! I’m a free spirit with an artistic and creative mind and Jarrad is a chemical engineer with a data driven mind! To put it mildly, Jarrad is left brained and I am right brained, so our wires have gotten crossed a time or two – well, maybe a little more than that!
My relationship with Jarrad has challenged my communication style and skills beyond comprehension. However, I am grateful for the struggles we have been through and I am a better communicator because of it! As Jarrad has taught me, perception is reality.
